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How to Spot the Disruptive Guild Member
Disruptive players in the guild can really be a guild leader's headache! Why can't people act normally you wonder or more like yourself? Well, despite being a game, MMORPG often reflect the real world all wrapped up into one micro chasm. But because there is no direct interactive communication online sometimes, it is harder to get a feel for how a person is like on the other end. Therefore, many guilds will wonder how an establish guild members could be so disruptive and be so overlooked by the guild leaders and officers. As a
The Drama Queen
Look among your members. Which one of them would make a comment like "How come officer Max gave him the +5 sword?", "Come on! Why didn't you heal me. You let me die!", "Did you hear, I made Palan look so stupid in front of the guild officer.", "Oh just shut up! You pervert!"
Any of us can state these remarks. However, if you know a person who consistently come up with these similar remarks and statements, that person is the drama queen in your group. Potentially, this member can disrupt your guild in the future by pinning friends again friends, dividing the guild into two. The end result from a drama queen disruption is always ugly. Straighten them our or cut them before the bomb explodes.
The Liar and the Cheat
Look among your members. Which one of them would make a comment like. "Oh I didn't know we were suppose to roll a dice for the rights to the items", "Oh I thought you said it was ok for me to open the chest." "Sorry, I wasn't at the scheduled guild recruiting event, I had to wash my hair" "Sorry I was AFK, I had an important phone call" "Officer Max, that was such a great run!! Let's do it again! "
Now mind you, we all say these things, but the liar and the cheater will display a repeating pattern of the above statements. That's why your officers need to record any possible disruptive behavior in a log of officer forum. The person who is doing this consistently, is your liar/cheater. What's the end result you might ask? The liar and the cheater leaves the guild after your officers and guild members spent tons of time leveling, crafting, and assisting him and he joins the next "flavor" guild of the month.
The "I" man (The individual)
Keep in mind, I am not saying to kick this guy out. But do realize that his action is fundamentally disrupting what you are putting together. If you expect your members to wear a guild tunic or uniform on certain days and he comes in shorts and sandals, he is disrupting your guild expectations and member obligations. One thing about holding a guild together is that you must uphold your fundamental rules and there shouldn't be exceptions to the rule.
You can easily spot the "I" man because as the individual, he has his own uniform, his own symbols, his own style. The "I" man may not even identify himself as a member of your guild when introducing himself to others.. Remember, in a guild, you are seeking the "we" members. The ones who feel the sum is greater than its parts. The ones who are willing to sacrifice themselves for the greater whole. Although the "I" man can be the greatest and kindest person in the world, if he's not into guild rules, you have to let the individual go.
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